Thursday, October 23, 2008

Got an Attitude... carry it off....


It was raining heavily out here in chennai yesterday.. and it still is... yesterday it was quite a heavy downpour.. i was stuck at this friend's place of mine and both of us were forced to take a bus to this place called "adayar" for some work...


so we got into this bus... buses in chennai have seats demarcated for men and women separately.. i guess it's the same everywhere.. so all seats in the men's side were taken.. and as there were no women standees, us and a couple of other males sat down on the women's section.. and in totality the bus was like exactly full... no vacant seats.. and nobody standing..


at an intermediate stop, two middle aged ladies boarded the bus.. we got up to offer them the seat before they could ask for.. for which they said they were comfortable standing... one of them gave us her bag to hold it for her.. so we were seated again...


so at the next stop , a girl.. she must have been in her late teens i guess... a college goer maybe.. even as the bus approached the stop.. she was staring at me and my friend.. so did it seem to both of us... her glare was something like.." you guys are using up the Ladies seat"...


so when she got into the bus.. both of us got up to give her the seat .. even as we were getting up.. this girl said//"ladies seat"....


we gave her her seat which was her birthright i know.. and we got the glare of our lifetimes in return... for having been seated in "her" seat till then.. we gave the other lady's bag back to them... they requested this girl to hold it for them..... and this girl retorted back.." not my bag"... and that was not very polite too i guess..


who cares whatever...me and my buddy were standing and chatting away on something else... the thing about bus conductors in chennai is that you need to go to them to buy yourself a ticket... conductors don't come to you..


So this girl took out a Rs.10 note, handing it over to the conductor, near whom we were standing.. and said "one velachery"...


now the funny part is velacherry was in the direction right opposite to where this bus would go... it's like a T junction where you take a left to adayar and a right to velacherry...so she was obviously in the wrong bus... the conductor said.." velachery pogadu ma".. meaning this bus doesn't go to velacherry...


she said" one checkpost then"... i giggled... everyone around was giggling... [ checkpost was a place enroute velacherry and was nowhere in the route of this bus again..!!]the conductor shouted back..." do you even know where this bus is going... you get into the bus at 7 in the morning and make my life hell,, this is 21 G "..


This was enough to feed words into my mouth... I commented generically.."bus la earum pozhudu... board ah pathu earanum.. ladies seat la yaaru ukkandirukkanu pathu eara koodadhu..." ... which transliterates as.. " board a bus looking at the board.. not looking at who's occupying the ladies seat"...


Everybody in the bus laughed... passengers , conductor and all... though i felt sorry for this poor girl who got onto a wrong bus on one hellova nasty rainy day... i know how tough it is ...


but if you've got this kind of an attitude... better learn to carry it off....!!!


and this girl was gotten out of the bus mid-way by the conductor... maybe she learnt her lesson the hard way..!!/


Cheers..!!
S

10 comments:

Tara said...

Awww! I feel so sorry for the poor girl! Once, I too got into the wrong bus, because I didn't know the way, but people on the bus were kind enough to explain it to me! Poor girl, first she hopped on the wrong bus, then she had to face such a nasty guy as you!! LOL. He he...:) No offense meant! ;D

S said...

@ tara
hmm.. it's fine.. i didn't do it on purpose anyway.. she created a situation for herself.. and i still feel sorry i said that ... i know it would have hurt.. but
still ppl hav gotto understnd... we are no MCPs here to take d ladies seat...(atleast i'm not) and refuse to vacate...

and i still don't mind apologising if i ever happen to meet her again... i've learnt my lesson from this incident too..!!

Cheers..!!!
S

Elithraniel Arawion said...

lolz... serves her right :P too much scene i say

Tom Evans said...

Entertaining story... I'm not on her side, manners cost nothing.

Preeti said...

scene pota la. adhaan. over scene odumbukku aagadhu :)

Anonymous said...

Dunno abt Chennai guys but Mumbai men using BEST buses r pigheaded snobs and they don’t understand the C of Chivalry..They confidently occupy ladies seats n refuse to get up..i make sure I give them an earful and get my seat..

Moreover they sprawl and laze arnd as if the seat is their ghar-ka-sofa..private property! no decency no courtesy..

I appreciate ur concern tho..and yes im with u..the girl deserved to b treated like tht..(in this particular case)

thnx for dropping by :)

S said...

@ Elithraniel ,Tom

Thanks for dropping by.. keep coming..

@ Preeti

Punch dialogue nanna irukke :D

@Swats

Not many pigheaded snobs out here in Chennai i guess...and the few that are out here are unfortunate..as not many women are satisfied with giving them an earful.... they give them a handful..and the PHS deserve it too..

Thanks 4 coming.. :-)

Cheers..!!
S

BIG Omi said...

@ S,

Dude.. reading this post was quite a learning experience mate.. i enjoyed reading it man.. hi5...

@ Swats,

Seems u had a bad experience... but my observation and experiences say that mumbai crowd is lot better in bus than in trains.. :)

S said...

@ Big

Thanx for dropping by dude..

S

Another Blogger said...

ahh i enjoyed the read.. frankly i do not understand why both of you stood up when obviously the girl requires just one seat..
i think chivalry is a virtue that shouldn't make its way out of the medieval times...we do not have knights anymore.. nor do we have ladies of the sort that were there then.
i think she got what she deserved.